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What is a nameday? In addition to a
birthday, every Bulgarian
also celebrates a nameday. The name
is something that you receive at birth and
that stays with you throughout your entire
life. If you celebrate your birthday, why
not celebrate your nameday too?
The Bulgarian nameday
is a recognition of the meaning of the name,
whether it comes from the name of a saint
that the person is named after, from a long
tradition, or from historical events. The
nameday is thus either the birthday of the
saint whose name you bare, or the time of
the year which is connected to the meaning
of your name, or the name of the holiday you
are born on, etc.
The name is considered
the most important attribute for a person.
The Bulgarians have a
proverb, which says: "Тhe
name makes the man",
and another one adds:
"A man with
no name is no man."
To defame one's name was
considered the worst sin that a person could
commit. On contrary, when someone is
respected by the people, they would hear:
"Good morning!
Long live you and your name!" as
they stroll down the street.
In the
past, the celebration of namedays (name days or
name-days) was one of the most respected
family holidays. Many of the old people
didn’t know the exact date of their birth.
For orientation they used the Orthodox
calendar (much like the one
here) and the
holidays on it. They described their birth
date as “born after St. Demetrius’ Day,"
"at threshing time," "before grape-picking" or
"on Holy Virgin’s Day”, etc.
According to old legends each man is
destined to have a protector, a spirit that
guides him in life, protects him from evil,
helps him in difficult moments and incites
him to do good deeds. After death this
spirit accompanies the soul to the other
world and presents it before God. During
lifetime the protector-spirit sits on the
right shoulder of the person. On the left
side sits the devil’s messenger and pushes a
man to do evil things. Much like in many of
the cartoons you have seen on TV. If the
protector-spirit is weak, a man becomes bad
or permanently ill. If the spirit is strong,
a man is healthy, good and kind. Old
Bulgarians believed that on the nameday they
must pay homage to the protector spirit, for
the spirit has suggested to the parents what
name to give to their newborn child.
According to Bulgarian tradition,
it is polite if you visit
your friends on their nameday. You have to
do this without
being invited - this is how you express
your respect. You can also pull their ears
or pour cold water on their head.
Nowadays,
Bulgarians still respect this tradition. If you know any
Bulgarians, use this
folklore calendar to find when their
namedays are and drop by to surprise
them at that day - you will bring joy and warmth to
their lives. You can also sign up
for our
FREE nameday reminder service. Give
it a try and you will enjoy it. You can
always unsubscribe later if you are not
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